Ladies I need your help please read......?

Sounds to me like he isn't ready to be a dad, but the thing is that since you are over 35, there can be some serious issues not only for you but also your unborn child. You need to sit him down and tell him how you feel and how having a child at your age could be dangerous. You definately have the means of providing for this child, so I don't see what he is so scared of. Good luck.